A Tool for Alienated Parents
Are you a separated Dad with an ex that has decided you aren’t seeing your children, or worse, that you’ve been abusive, following false accusations.
If you’re in a situation where you are having contact blocked, refused Christmas and birthday presents, then you could the victim of a ‘delete Dad‘ or ‘delete Mum‘ campaign and Parental Alienation.
A tool for lost parents with three main aims
- Create a public profile with a soft version of your story which can be found on Google should someone (i.e. your Children) search for your name and city. This profile must not breach privacy laws or be libellous. It’s a soft message to your children should they search for you online.
- Create an Evidence Pack page (not public, completely private) where you record absolutely everything, all categorised, searchable with tags and on a seamless timeline. Upload WhatsApp messages, email screenshots, voice notes, videos, correspondents court documents, basically everything. This is your Evidence Pack for now which you can share with your legal team, or generate a PDF report containing only the items you want for other parties.
- Your children will be able to request access from you to your Evidence Pack page when they are 16 (may later be changed to 18). But to ensure this isn’t another party requesting the access, they will have to prove their identity and you will still need to manually approve the access.
Leave your story here and they’ll find you when they’re ready.
Leave your story here, they’ll find you when they’re ready. But they will look.
For Mums, Dads, step parents and grandparents
Everyone can use this tool, this tool isn’t locked down and made just for Dads, we know this happens to all parents, step-parents and grandparents alike.
iloveyoumassivebig.com was created by an alienated Dad for personal use, this includes the branding. But is open to all parents, regardless of gender. For this reason, our marketing and branding is currently weighted towards Dads. We want to support everyone that is going through what is a very sad and stressful time.
iloveyoumassivebig.com is entirely impartial toward gender. Dishonesty is not associated with or biased toward any particular gender. However, there are structural, legal and state sponsored motivators, as unintended as they may be, do still encourage Mums far more than Dads to lie or at least be artistic with the truth. We plan to campaign about genuine equality in family court, hopefully before our own young boys become parents and fall victim to the horribly unfair family court system.
When either parent creates their profile, they’ll be made aware that should they then create their Evidence Pack page, that we also encourage them to invite the other parent to do the same. Nothing on either Mums or Dads evidence pack page will be accessible by the other party and they are completely private. Only when the child finds the profile and requests access to the evidence pack page will they be able to view both Mums and Dads evidence pack pages.
For The Displaced Mums and Dads
If the other parent is stopping you from seeing your children, this is your calling card, tell them you love them, record everything. Leave it here for when they look for you…
Are Christmas/birthday cards & presents being refused?
Buy them anyway, photograph them, save them all. Leave them here for when they look for you.